Truly Alive!

Your not weak, if you cry...Your ALIVE! You have emotions, feelings, dreams and desires. Crying is a way to release all that tension that has built up in your body. It must come out to renew your spirit and lift the burdens that have been weighing you down...So let it all out and leave it behind you. Your renewed spirit is ALIVE, well and ready to move forward. Xo, Meme

Become Who You Are Meant To Be!

We all want to experience that feeling of being completely alive. Some of us have had moments where we knew we were at our best...Everything flowing in the right direction. Our relationships, family, work, and free time were all working for us, rather than against us. Some of us, have always struggled...seems like we are always struggling to just make it through the day. The key isn't who we are or where we are...The key is to stop fighting to be right, to stop trying to win or to conquer something. The key is to let go and accept your life and where you are. While being able to see the beauty in your life. In the everyday boring stuff. Laugh at yourself and be easy to let go of being annoyed or upset at everything and everyone. Allow yourself to daydream about what you would like your life to be and FEEL that feeling of how it feels to be the person you see in your daydreams...Scientists have proven that our subconscious minds cannot decipher between reality and our daydreams. Our brains believe our daydreams to be reality just as they do our actual daily lives. So daydream...believe them, feel them and let them live inside of your heart...Believe in yourself...in your dreams...You never know where your DREAMS will take you!

Xo, Meme

This The Green Really Greener?

When I was younger I always thought that the grass was always greener on the other side. I would sit and daydream about what I thought my life would be like if I was living a different life. Perhaps a different home, a different lifestyle, maybe even different circumstances...It wouldn't of really mattered what the difference was, it was how it made me "FEEL" when I thought about my life differently.

As I got older, I started to realize that all my circumstances where actually benefiting my life on a grander scale. They were like stepping stones to the next venture in "the story of my life". Like pages turning, I could see the beauty in how everything unfolded. It is beautifully orchestrated and it could not of been more perfect. Had I been in complete control and guided my life the way I saw fit. I don't know if I could of created a life more perfect than my life, "my story"...

So the lesson is to nurture yourself where you are now. Who knows where you will end up or who you are destined to become. The only thing you have to do is to make sure to water {nurture} your grass {your life}...and make it the greenest, most envied grass on the block. So, when you catch yourself daydreaming or envying someone or something else...Remember "your story" is in the making..."Your grass" is slowly maturing and growing...and one day you are going to walk out outside your door and say, "Wow, this is all mine...my life, my story, my green, beautiful "OH SO LUSHEST" grass...thank goodness, I didn't run to the other side...

 Xo, Meme

Love Yourself Every Step Of The Way

Love yourself Every...Step...Of...The...Way!

Tell yourself you will love yourself...Every...Step...Of...The...Way! And do just that! If you can learn to truly love yourself...Who you are, where you are at in this moment and where you wish to be in the future...all while not beating yourself up or putting yourself down...You will grow into a more peaceful and happier person...and actually see your life unfold more beautifully...with more ease, balance and clarity to be able to transform yourself to who you dream of being without the self-hatred and unkind words you tell yourself. Because you can't ever get to where you want to be with self-hatred. Period.

You know why you beat yourself up? Because you are looking outside of yourself for happiness, peace and the answers to the questions you have about your life...Like why you are here, why your life is the way it is, where you are headed and if your life will ever be what you dream it to be.

Love your flaws...imperfections...mistakes...setbacks and anything else you beat yourself up for...and I promise (yes, promise) you one thing. You will never be the same. Your life will transform, will grow and flourish. Will all your dreams come true? Probably not. ;) But dreams you didn't dream of will manifest and emerge out of no where. And you will realize that those dreams were better than the ones you could of ever dreamt of...:) Guaranteed...100%...A pinky swear promise...So, will you take me up on this challenge? And do it fully, with complete love...Every...Step...Of...The...Way?

Xo, Meme